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lay has had the same fate with the squib; and has gone off no more。 I remember a squib much better applied; when it was made the device of the colors of a French regiment of grenadiers; it was represented bursting; with this motto under it: 'Peream dum luceam'。

I like the description of your PIC…NIC; where I take it for granted; that your cards are only to break the formality of a circle; and your SYMPOSION intended more to promote conversation than drinking。  Such an AMICABLE COLLISION; as Lord Shaftesbury very prettily calls it; rubs off and smooths those rough corners which mere nature has given to the smoothest of us。  I hope some part; at least; of the conversation is in German。  'A propos': tell me do you speak that language correctly; and do you write it with ease?  I have no doubt of your mastering the other modern languages; which are much easier; and occur much oftener; for which reason; I desire that you will apply most diligently to German; while you are in Germany; that you may speak and write that language most correctly。

I expect to meet Mr。 Eliot in London; in about three weeks; after which you will soon see him at Leipsig。  Adieu。




LETTER LVI

LONDON; November 18; O。 S。  1748。

DEAR BOY: Whatever I see or whatever I hear; my first consideration is; whether it can in any way be useful to you。  As a proof of this; I went accidentally the other day into a print…shop; where; among many others; I found one print from a famous design of Carlo Maratti; who died about thirty years ago; and was the last eminent painter in Europe: the subject is 'il Studio del Disegno'; or 〃The School of Drawing。〃  An old man; supposed to be the master; points to his scholars; who are variously employed in perspective; geometry; and the observation of the statues of antiquity。  With regard to perspective; of which there are some little specimens; he has wrote; 'Tanto che basti'; that is; 〃As much as is sufficient〃; with regard to geometry; 'Tanto che basti' again; with regard to the contemplation of the ancient statues; there is written; 'Non mai a bastanza';〃There never can be enough。〃  But in the clouds; at the top of the piece; are represented the three Graces; with this just sentence written over them; 'Senza di noi ogni fatica e vana'; that is; 〃Without us; all labor is vain。〃  This everybody allows to be true in painting; but all people do not seem to consider; as I hope you will; that this truth is full as applicable to every other art or science; indeed to everything that is to be said or done。  I will send you the print itself  by Mr。 Eliot; when he returns; and I will advise you to make the same use of it that the Roman Catholics say they do of the pictures and images of their saints; which is; only to remind them of those; for the adoration they disclaim。  Nay; I will go further; as the transition from Popery to Paganism is short and easy; I will classically end poetically advise you to invoke; and sacrifice to them every day; and all the day。  It must be owned; that the Graces do not seem to be natives of Great Britain; and; I doubt; the best of us here have more of rough than polished diamond。

Since barbarism drove them out of Greece and Rome; they seem to have taken refuge in France; where their temples are numerous; and their worship the established one。  Examine yourself seriously; why such and such people please and engage you; more than such and such others; of equal merit; and you will always find that it is because the former have the Graces and the latter not。  I have known many a woman with an exact shape; and a symmetrical assemblage of beautiful features; please nobody; while others; with very moderate shapes and features; have charmed everybody。  Why?  because Venus will not charm so much; without her attendant Graces; as they will without her。  Among men; how often have I seen the most solid merit and knowledge neglected; unwelcome; or even rejected; for want of them!  While flimsy parts; little knowledge; and less merit; introduced by the Graces; have been received; cherished; and admired。  Even virtue; which is moral beauty; wants some of its charms if unaccompanied by them。

If you ask me how you shall acquire what neither you nor I can define or ascertain; I can only answer; BY OBSERVATION。  Form yourself; with regard to others; upon what you feel pleases you in them。  I can tell you the importance; the advantage; of having the Graces; but I cannot give them you: I heartily wish I could; and I certainly would; for I do not know a better present that I could make you。  To show you that a very wise; philosophical; and retired man thinks upon that subject as I do; who have always lived in the world; I send you; by Mr。 Eliot; the famous Mr。 Locke's book upon education; in which you will end the stress that he lays upon the Graces; which he calls (and very truly) good…breeding。 I have marked all the parts of that book that are worth your attention; for as he begins with the child; almost from its birth; the parts relative to its infancy would be useless to you。  Germany is; still less than England; the seat of the Graces; however; you had as good not say so while you are there。  But the place which you are going to; in a great degree; is; for I have known as many well…bred; pretty men come from Turin; as from any part of Europe。  The late King Victor Amedee took great pains to form such of his subjects as were of any consideration; both to business and manners; the present king; I am told; follows his example: this; however; is certain; that in all courts and congresses; where there are various foreign ministers; those of the King of Sardinia are generally the ablest; the politest; and 'les plus delies'。  You will therefore; at Turin; have very good models to form yourself upon: and remember; that with regard to the best models; as well as to the antique Greek statues in the print; 'non mai a bastanza'。  Observe every word; look; and motion of those who are allowed to be the most accomplished persons there。  Observe their natural and careless; but genteel air; their unembarrassed good…breeding; their unassuming; but yet unprostituted dignity。  Mind their decent mirth; their discreet frankness; and that 'entregent' which; as much above the frivolous as below the important and the secret; is the proper medium for conversation in mixed companies。  I will observe; by the bye; that the talent of that light 'entregent' is often of great use to a foreign minister; not only as it helps him to domesticate himself in many families; but also as it enables him to put by and parry some subjects of conversation; which might possibly lay him under difficulties both what to say and how to look。

Of all the men that ever I knew in my life (and I knew him extremely well); the late Duke of Marlborough possessed the graces in the highest degree; not to say engrossed them; and indeed he got the most by them; for I will venture (contrary to the custom of profound historians; who always assign deep causes for great events); to ascribe the better half of the Duke of Marlborough's greatness and riches to those graces。  He was eminently illiterate; wrote bad English and spelled it still worse。 He had no share of what is commonly called PARTS: that is; he had no brightness; nothing shining in his genius。  He had most undoubtedly; an excellent good plain understanding with sound judgment。  But these alone; would probably have raised him but something higher than they found him; which was page to King James the Second's queen。  There the Graces protected and promoted him; for while he was an ensign of the Guards; the Duchess of Cleveland; then favorite mistress to King Charles the Second; struck by those very Graces; gave him five thousand pounds; with which he immediately bought an annuity for his life of five hundred pounds a year; of my grandfather Halifax; which was the foundation of his subsequent fortune。  His figure was beautiful; but his manner was irresistible; by either man or woman。  It was by this engaging; graceful manner; that he was enabled; during all his war; to connect the various and jarring powers of the Grand Alliance; and to carry them on to the main object of the war; notwithstanding their private and separate views; jealousies; and wrongheadednesses。  Whatever court he went to (and he was often obliged to go himself to some resty and refractory ones); he as constantly prevailed; and brought them into his measures。  The Pensionary Heinsius; a venerable old minister; grown gray in business; and who had governed the republic of the United Provinces for more than forty years; was absolutely governed by the Duke of Marlborough; as that republic feels to this day。  He was always cool; and nobody ever observed the least variation in his countenance; he could refuse more gracefully than other people could grant; and those who went away from him the most dissatisfied as to the substance of their business; were yet personally charmed with him and; in some degree; comforted by his manner。  With all his gentleness and gracefulness; no man living was more conscious of his situation; nor maintained his dignity better。

With the share of knowledge which you have already gotten; and with the much greater which I hope you will soon acquire; what may you not expect to arrive at; if you join all these graces to it?  In your destination particularly; they are in truth half your business: for; if you once gain the affections as well as the esteem of the prince or minister of the court to which you are sent; I will answer for it; that will effectually do the business of the court that sent you; otherwise it is up…hill work。 Do not mistake; and think that these graces which I so often and so earnestly recommend to you; should only accompany important transactions; and be worn only 'les jours de gala'; no; they should; if possible; accompany every; the least thing you do or say; for; if you neglect them in little things; they will leave you in great ones。  I should; for instance; be extremely concerned to see you even drink a cup of coffee ungracefully; and slop yourself with it; by your awkward manner of holding it; nor should I like to see your coat buttoned; or your shoes buckled awry。  But I should be outrageous; if I heard y

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