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at the posthouse till you send for it。  Upon your arrival at Berlin you will send me your particular direction; and also; pray be minute in your accounts of your reception there; by those whom I recommend you to; as well as by those to whom they present you。  Remember; too; that you are going to a polite and literate court; where the Graces will best introduce you。

Adieu。  God bless you; and may you continue to deserve my love; as much as you now enjoy it!

P。 S。  Lady Chesterfield bids me tell you; that she decides entirely in your favor against Mr。 Grevenkop; and even against herself; for she does not think that she could; at this time; write either so good a character or so good German。  Pray write her a German letter upon that subject; in which you may tell her; that; like the rest of the world; you approve of her judgment; because it is in your favor; and that you true Germans cannot allow Danes to be competent judges of your language; etc。




LETTER LXI

LONDON; December 30; O。 S。  1748。

DEAR BOY: I direct this letter to Berlin; where; I suppose; it will either find you; or at least wait but a very little time for you。  I cannot help being anxious for your success; at this your first appearance upon the great stage of the world; for; though the spectators are always candid enough to give great allowances; and to show great indulgence to a new actor; yet; from the first impressions which he makes upon them; they are apt to decide; in their own minds; at least; whether he will ever be a good one; or not。  If he seems to understand what he says; by speaking it properly; if he is attentive to his part; instead of staring negligently about him; and if; upon the whole; he seems ambitious to please; they willingly pass over little awkwardnesses and inaccuracies; which they ascribe to a commendable modesty in a young and inexperienced actor。  They pronounce that he will be a good one in time; and; by the encouragement which they give him; make him so the sooner。  This; I hope; will be your case: you have sense enough to understand your part; a constant attention; and ambition to excel in it; with a careful observation of the best actors; will inevitably qualify you; if not for the first; at least for considerable parts。

Your dress (as insignificant a thing as dress is in itself) is now become an object worthy of some attention; for; I confess; I cannot help forming some opinion of a man's sense and character from his dress; and I believe most people do as well as myself。  Any affectation whatsoever in dress implies; in my mind; a flaw in the understanding。  Most of our young fellows here display some character or other by their dress; some affect the tremendous; and wear a great and fiercely cocked hat; an enormous sword; a short waistcoat and a black cravat; these I should be almost tempted to swear the peace against; in my own defense; if I were not convinced that they are but meek asses in lions' skins。  Others go in brown frocks; leather breeches; great oaken cudgels in their hands; their hats uncocked; and their hair unpowdered; and imitate grooms; stage… coachmen; and country bumpkins so well in their outsides; that I do not make the least doubt of their resembling them equally in their insides。 A man of sense carefully avoids any particular character in his dress; he is accurately clean for his own sake; but all the rest is for other people's。  He dresses as well; and in the same manner; as the people of sense and fashion of the place where he is。  If he dresses better; as he thinks; that is; more than they; he is a fop; if he dresses worse; he is unpardonably negligent。  But; of the two; I would rather have a young fellow too much than too little dressed; the excess on that side will wear off; with a little age and reflection; but if he is negligent at twenty; he will be a sloven at forty; and stink at fifty years old。 Dress yourself fine; where others are fine; and plain where others are plain; but take care always that your clothes are well made; and fit you; for otherwise they will give you a very awkward air。  When you are once well dressed for the day think no more of it afterward; and; without any stiffness for fear of discomposing that dress; let all your motions be as easy and natural as if you had no clothes on at all。  So much for dress; which I maintain to be a thing of consequence in the polite world。

As to manners; good…breeding; and the Graces; I have so often entertained you upon those important subjects; that I can add nothing to what I have formerly said。  Your own good sense will suggest to you the substance of them; and observation; experience; and good company; the several modes of them。  Your great vivacity; which I hear of from many people; will be no hindrance to your pleasing in good company: on the contrary; will be of use to you; if tempered by good…breeding and accompanied by the Graces。 But then; I suppose your vivacity to be a vivacity of parts; and not a constitutional restlessness; for the most disagreeable composition that I know in the world; is that of strong animal spirits; with a cold genius。 Such a fellow is troublesomely active; frivolously busy; foolishly lively; talks much with little meaning; and laughs more; with less reason whereas; in my opinion; a warm and lively genius with a cool constitution; is the perfection of human nature。

Do what you will at Berlin; provided you do but do something all day long。  All that I desire of you is; that you will never slattern away one minute in idleness and in doing of nothing。  When you are (not)in company; learn what either books; masters; or Mr。 Harte; can teach you; and when you are in company; learn (what company can only teach you) the characters and manners of mankind。  I really ask your pardon for giving you this advice; because; if you are a rational creature and thinking being; as I suppose; and verily believe you are; it must be unnecessary; and to a certain degree injurious。  If I did not know by experience; that some men pass their whole time in doing nothing; I should not think it possible for any being; superior to Monsieur Descartes' automatons; to squander away; in absolute idleness; one single minute of that small portion of time which is allotted us in this world。

I have lately seen one Mr。 Cranmer; a very sensible merchant; who told me that he had dined with you; and seen you often at Leipsig。  And yesterday I saw an old footman of mine; whom I made a messenger; who told me that he had seen you last August。  You will easily imagine; that I was not the less glad to see them because they had seen you; and I examined them both narrowly; in their respective departments; the former as to your mind; the latter; as to your body。  Mr。 Cranmer gave me great satisfaction; not only by what he told me of himself concerning you; but by what he was commissioned to tell me from Mr。 Mascow。  As he speaks German perfectly himself; I asked him how you spoke it; and he assured me very well for the time; and that a very little more practice would make you perfectly master of it。  The messenger told me that you were much grown; and; to the best of his guess; within two inches as tall as I am; that you were plump; and looked healthy and strong; which was all that I could expect; or hope; from the sagacity of the person。

I send you; my dear child (and you will not doubt it); very sincerely; the wishes of the season。  May you deserve a great number of happy New… years; and; if you deserve; may you have them。  Many New…years; indeed; you may see; but happy ones you cannot see without deserving them。 These; virtue; honor; and knowledge; alone can merit; alone can procure; 'Dii tibi dent annos; de te nam cetera sumes'; was a pretty piece of poetical flattery; where it was said: I hope that; in time; it may be no flattery when said to you。  But I assure you; that wherever I cannot apply the latter part of the line to you with truth; I shall neither say; think; or wish the former。  Adieu!








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