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success; as by the opposition they have encountered; and the

courage with which they have maintained the struggle。



The patriot who fights an always…losing battlethe martyr who

goes to death amidst the triumphant shouts of his enemiesthe

discoverer; like Columbus; whose heart remains undaunted through

the bitter years of his 〃long wandering woe〃are examples of the

moral sublime which excite a profounder interest in the hearts of

men than even the most complete and conspicuous success。  By the

side of such instances as these; how small by comparison seem the

greatest deeds of valour; inciting men to rush upon death and die

amidst the frenzied excitement of physical warfare!



But the greater part of the courage that is needed in the world is

not of a heroic kind。  Courage may be displayed in everyday life

as well as in historic fields of action。  There needs; for

example; the common courage to be honestthe courage to resist

temptationthe courage to speak the truththe courage to be

what we really are; and not to pretend to be what we are notthe

courage to live honestly within our own means; and not dishonestly

upon the means of others。



A great deal of the unhappiness; and much of the vice; of the

world is owing to weakness and indecision of purposein other

words; to lack of courage。  Men may know what is right; and yet

fail to exercise the courage to do it; they may understand the

duty they have to do; but will not summon up the requisite

resolution to perform it。  The weak and undisciplined man is at

the mercy of every temptation; he cannot say 〃No;〃 but falls

before it。  And if his companionship be bad; he will be all the

easier led away by bad example into wrongdoing。



Nothing can be more certain than that the character can only be

sustained and strengthened by its own energetic action。  The will;

which is the central force of character; must be trained to habits

of decisionotherwise it will neither be able to resist evil nor

to follow good。  Decision gives the power of standing firmly; when

to yield; however slightly; might be only the first step in a

downhill course to ruin。



Calling upon others for help in forming a decision is worse than

useless。  A man must so train his habits as to rely upon his own

powers and depend upon his own courage in moments of emergency。

Plutarch tells of a King of Macedon who; in the midst of an

action; withdrew into the adjoining town under pretence of

sacrificing to Hercules; whilst his opponent Emilius; at the same

time that he implored the Divine aid; sought for victory sword in

hand; and won the battle。  And so it ever is in the actions of

daily life。



Many are the valiant purposes formed; that end merely in words;

deeds intended; that are never done; designs projected; that are

never begun; and all for want of a little courageous decision。

Better far the silent tongue but the eloquent deed。  For in life

and in business; despatch is better than discourse; and the

shortest answer of all is; DOING。  〃In matters of great concern;

and which must be done;〃 says Tillotson; 〃there is no surer

argument of a weak mind than irresolutionto be undetermined

when the case is so plain and the necessity so urgent。  To be

always intending to live a new life; but never to find time

to set about it;this is as if a man should put off eating

and drinking and sleeping from one day to another; until

he is starved and destroyed。〃



There needs also the exercise of no small degree of moral courage

to resist the corrupting influences of what is called 〃Society。〃

Although 〃Mrs。 Grundy〃 may be a very vulgar and commonplace

personage; her influence is nevertheless prodigious。  Most men;

but especially women; are the moral slaves of the class or caste

to which they belong。  There is a sort of unconscious conspiracy

existing amongst them against each other's individuality。  Each

circle and section; each rank and class; has its respective

customs and observances; to which conformity is required at the

risk of being tabooed。  Some are immured within a bastile of

fashion; others of custom; others of opinion; and few there are

who have the courage to think outside their sect; to act outside

their party; and to step out into the free air of individual

thought and action。  We dress; and eat; and follow fashion; though

it may be at the risk of debt; ruin; and misery; living not so

much according to our means; as according to the superstitious

observances of our class。  Though we may speak contemptuously

of the Indians who flatten their heads; and of the Chinese

who cramp their toes; we have only to look at the deformities

of fashion amongst ourselves; to see that the reign of

〃Mrs。 Grundy〃 is universal。



But moral cowardice is exhibited quite as much in public as in

private life。  Snobbism is not confined to the toadying of the

rich; but is quite as often displayed in the toadying of the poor。

Formerly; sycophancy showed itself in not daring to speak the

truth to those in high places; but in these days it rather shows

itself in not daring to speak the truth to those in low places。

Now that 〃the masses〃 (6) exercise political power; there is a

growing tendency to fawn upon them; to flatter them; and to speak

nothing but smooth words to them。  They are credited with virtues

which they themselves know they do not possess。  The public

enunciation of wholesome because disagreeable truths is avoided;

and; to win their favour; sympathy is often pretended for views;

the carrying out of which in practice is known to be hopeless。



It is not the man of the noblest characterthe highest…cultured

and best…conditioned manwhose favour is now sought; so much as

that of the lowest man; the least…cultured and worst…conditioned

man; because his vote is usually that of the majority。  Even men

of rank; wealth; and education; are seen prostrating themselves

before the ignorant; whose votes are thus to be got。  They are

ready to be unprincipled and unjust rather than unpopular。  It is

so much easier for some men to stoop; to bow; and to flatter; than

to be manly; resolute; and magnanimous; and to yield to prejudices

than run counter to them。  It requires strength and courage to

swim against the stream; while any dead fish can float with it。



This servile pandering to popularity has been rapidly on the

increase of late years; and its tendency has been to lower and

degrade the character of public men。  Consciences have become more

elastic。  There is now one opinion for the chamber; and another

for the platform。  Prejudices are pandered to in public; which in

private are despised。  Pretended conversionswhich invariably

jump with party interests are more sudden; and even hypocrisy now

appears to be scarcely thought discreditable。



The same moral cowardice extends downwards as well as upwards。

The action and reaction are equal。  Hypocrisy and timeserving

above are accompanied by hypocrisy and timeserving below。  Where

men of high standing have not the courage of their opinions; what

is to be expected from men of low standing?  They will only follow

such examples as are set before them。  They too will skulk; and

dodge; and prevaricatebe ready to speak one way and act another

just like their betters。  Give them but a sealed box; or some

hole…and…corner to hide their act in; and they will then enjoy

their 〃liberty!〃



Popularity; as won in these days; is by no means a presumption in

a man's favour; but is quite as often a presumption against him。

〃No man;〃 says the Russian proverb; 〃can rise to honour who is

cursed with a stiff backbone。〃  But the backbone of the

popularity…hunter is of gristle; and he has no difficulty in

stooping and bending himself in any direction to catch the breath

of popular applause。



Where popularity is won by fawning upon the people; by withholding

the truth from them; by writing and speaking down to the lowest

tastes; and still worse by appeals to class…hatred; (7) such a

popularity must be simply contemptible in the sight of all honest

men。  Jeremy Bentham; speaking of a well…known public character;

said: 〃His creed of politics results less from love of the many

than from hatred of the few; it is too much under the influence of

selfish and dissocial affection。〃  To how many men in our own day

might not the same description apply?



Men of sterling character have the courage to speak the truth;

even when it is unpopular。  It was said of Colonel Hutchinson by

his wife; that he never sought after popular applause; or prided

himself on it: 〃He more delighted to do well than to be praised;

and never set vulgar commendations at such a rate as to act

contrary to his own conscience or reason for the obtaining them;

nor would he forbear a good action which he was bound to; though

all the world disliked it; for he ever looked on things as they

were in themselves; not through the dim spectacles of vulgar

estimation。〃 (8)



〃Popularity; in the lowest and most common sense;〃 said Sir John

Pakington; on a recent occasion; (9) 〃is not worth the having。  Do

your duty to the best of your power; win the approbation of your

own conscience; and popularity; in its best and highest sense; is

sure to follow。〃



When Richard Lovell Edgeworth; towards the close of his life;

became very popular in his neighbourhood; he said one day to his

daughter: 〃Maria; I am growing dreadfully popular; I shall be good

for nothing soon; a man cannot be good for anything who is very

popular。〃  Probably he had in his mind at the time the Gospel

curse of the popular man; 〃Woe unto you; when all men shall speak

well of you! for so did their fathers to the false prophets。〃



Intellectual intrepidity is one of the vital conditions of

independence and self…reliance of character。  A man must have the

courage to be himself; and not the shadow or the echo of another。

He must ex

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