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goitres are so common that to be without one is regarded as a

deformity。  One day a party of Englishmen passed through the

place; when quite a crowd collected to jeer them; shouting: 〃See;

see these peoplethey have got NO GOTOS!〃



Many persons give themselves a great deal of fidget concerning

what other people think of them and their peculiarities。  Some are

too much disposed to take the illnatured side; and; judging by

themselves; infer the worst。 But it is very often the case that

the uncharitableness of others; where it really exists; is but the

reflection of our own want of charity and want of temper。  It

still oftener happens; that the worry we subject ourselves to; has

its source in our own imagination。  And even though those about us

may think of us uncharitably; we shall not mend matters by

exasperating ourselves against them。  We may thereby only expose

ourselves unnecessarily to their illnature or caprice。  〃The ill

that comes out of our mouth;〃 says Herbert; 〃ofttimes falls

into our bosom。〃



The great and good philosopher Faraday communicated the following

piece of admirable advice; full of practical wisdom; the result of

a rich experience of life; in a letter to his friend Professor

Tyndall:… 〃Let me; as an old man; who ought by this time to have

profited by experience; say that when I was younger I found I

often misrepresented the intentions of people; and that they did

not mean what at the time I supposed they meant; and further;

that; as a general rule; it was better to be a little dull of

apprehension where phrases seemed to imply pique; and quick in

perception when; on the contrary; they seemed to imply kindly

feeling。  The real truth never fails ultimately to appear; and

opposing parties; if wrong; are sooner convinced when replied to

forbearingly; than when overwhelmed。  All I mean to say is; that

it is better to be blind to the results of partisanship; and quick

to see goodwill。  One has more happiness in one's self in

endeavouring to follow the things that make for peace。  You can

hardly imagine how often I have been heated in private when

opposed; as I have thought unjustly and superciliously; and yet I

have striven; and succeeded; I hope; in keeping down replies of

the like kind。  And I know I have never lost by it。〃 (11)



While the painter Barry was at Rome; he involved himself; as was

his wont; in furious quarrels with the artists and dilettanti;

about picture…painting and picture…dealing; upon which his friend

and countryman; Edmund Burkealways the generous friend of

struggling meritwrote to him kindly and sensibly: 〃Believe me;

dear Barry; that the arms with which the ill…dispositions of the

world are to be combated; and the qualities by which it is to be

reconciled to us; and we reconciled to it; are moderation;

gentleness; a little indulgence to others; and a great deal of

distrust of ourselves; which are not qualities of a mean spirit;

as some may possibly think them; but virtues of a great and noble

kind; and such as dignify our nature as much as they contribute to

our repose and fortune; for nothing can be so unworthy of a well…

composed soul as to pass away life in bickerings and litigations

in snarling and scuffling with every one about us。  We must be at

peace with our species; if not for their sakes; at least very much

for our own。〃 (12)



No one knew the value of self…control better than the poet Burns;

and no one could teach it more eloquently to others; but when it

came to practice; Burns was as weak as the weakest。 He could not

deny himself the pleasure of uttering a harsh and clever sarcasm

at another's expense。  One of his biographers observes of him;

that it was no extravagant arithmetic to say that for every ten

jokes he made himself a hundred enemies。  But this was not all。

Poor Burns exercised no control over his appetites; but freely

gave them rein:



      〃Thus thoughtless follies laid him low

             And stained his name。〃



Nor had he the self…denial to resist giving publicity to

compositions originally intended for the delight of the tap…room;

but which continue secretly to sow pollution broadcast in the

minds of youth。  Indeed; notwithstanding the many exquisite poems

of this writer; it is not saying too much to aver that his immoral

writings have done far more harm than his purer writings have done

good; and that it would be better that all his writings should be

destroyed and forgotten provided his indecent songs could be

destroyed with them。



The remark applies alike to Beranger; who has been styled 〃The

Burns of France。〃  Beranger was of the same bright incisive

genius; he had the same love of pleasure; the same love of

popularity; and while he flattered French vanity to the top of its

bent; he also painted the vices most loved by his countrymen with

the pen of a master。  Beranger's songs and Thiers' History

probably did more than anything else to reestablish the Napoleonic

dynasty in France。  But that was a small evil compared with the

moral mischief which many of Beranger's songs are calculated to

produce; for; circulating freely as they do in French households;

they exhibit pictures of nastiness and vice; which are enough to

pollute and destroy a nation。



One of Burns's finest poems; written; in his twenty…eighth year;

is entitled 'A Bard's Epitaph。'  It is a description; by

anticipation; of his own life。  Wordsworth has said of it: 〃Here

is a sincere and solemn avowal; a public declaration from his own

will; a confession at once devout; poetical and human; a history

in the shape of a prophecy。〃  It concludes with these lines:…



      〃Reader; attendwhether thy soul

       Soars fancy's flights beyond the pole;

       Or darkling grubs this earthly hole

                           In low pursuit;

       Knowprudent; cautious self…control;

                           Is Wisdom's root。〃



One of the vices before which Burns felland it may be said to

be a master…vice; because it is productive of so many other vices

was drinking。  Not that he was a drunkard; but because he

yielded to the temptations of drink; with its degrading

associations; and thereby lowered and depraved his whole nature。

(13)  But poor Burns did not stand alone; for; alas! of all vices;

the unrestrained appetite for drink was in his time; as it

continues to be now; the most prevalent; popular; degrading;

and destructive。



Were it possible to conceive the existence of a tyrant who should

compel his people to give up to him one…third or more of their

earnings; and require them at the same time to consume a commodity

that should brutalise and degrade them; destroy the peace and

comfort of their families; and sow in themselves the seeds of

disease and premature deathwhat indignation meetings; what

monster processions there would be!  'What eloquent speeches and

apostrophes to the spirit of liberty!what appeals against a

despotism so monstrous and so unnatural!  And yet such a tyrant

really exists amongst usthe tyrant of unrestrained appetite;

whom no force of arms; or voices; or votes can resist; while men

are willing to be his slaves。



The power of this tyrant can only be overcome by moral meansby

self…discipline; self…respect; and self…control。  There is no

other way of withstanding the despotism of appetite in any of its

forms。  No reform of institutions; no extended power of voting; no

improved form of government; no amount of scholastic instruction;

can possibly elevate the character of a people who voluntarily

abandon themselves to sensual indulgence。  The pursuit of ignoble

pleasure is the degradation of true happiness; it saps the morals;

destroys the energies; and degrades the manliness and robustness

of individuals as of nations。



The courage of self…control exhibits itself in many ways; but in

none more clearly than in honest living。  Men without the virtue

of self…denial are not only subject to their own selfish desires;

but they are usually in bondage to others who are likeminded with

themselves。  What others do; they do。  They must live according to

the artificial standard of their class; spending like their

neighbours; regardless of the consequences; at the same time that

all are; perhaps; aspiring after a style of living higher than

their means。  Each carries the others along with him; and they

have not the moral courage to stop。  They cannot resist the

temptation of living high; though it may be at the expense of

others; and they gradually become reckless of debt; until it

enthrals them。  In all this there is great moral cowardice;

pusillanimity; and want of manly independence of character。



A rightminded man will shrink from seeming to be what he is not;

or pretending to be richer than he really is; or assuming a style

of living that his circumstances will not justify。  He will have

the courage to live honestly within his own means; rather than

dishonestly upon the means of other people; for he who incurs

debts in striving to maintain a style of living beyond his income;

is in spirit as dishonest as the man who openly picks your pocket。



To many; this may seem an extreme view; but it will bear the

strictest test。 Living at the cost of others is not only

dishonesty; but it is untruthfulness in deed; as lying is in word。

The proverb of George Herbert; that 〃debtors are liars;〃 is

justified by experience。  Shaftesbury somewhere says that a

restlessness to have something which we have not; and to be

something which we are not; is the root of all immorality。 (14)  No

reliance is to be placed on the sayinga very dangerous oneof

Mirabeau; that 〃LA PETITE MORALE ETAIT L'ENNEMIE DE LA GRANDE。〃

On the contrary; strict adherence to even the smallest details of

morality is the foundation of all manly and noble character。



The honourable man is frugal of his means; and pays his way

honestly。

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