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goitres are so common that to be without one is regarded as a
deformity。 One day a party of Englishmen passed through the
place; when quite a crowd collected to jeer them; shouting: 〃See;
see these peoplethey have got NO GOTOS!〃
Many persons give themselves a great deal of fidget concerning
what other people think of them and their peculiarities。 Some are
too much disposed to take the illnatured side; and; judging by
themselves; infer the worst。 But it is very often the case that
the uncharitableness of others; where it really exists; is but the
reflection of our own want of charity and want of temper。 It
still oftener happens; that the worry we subject ourselves to; has
its source in our own imagination。 And even though those about us
may think of us uncharitably; we shall not mend matters by
exasperating ourselves against them。 We may thereby only expose
ourselves unnecessarily to their illnature or caprice。 〃The ill
that comes out of our mouth;〃 says Herbert; 〃ofttimes falls
into our bosom。〃
The great and good philosopher Faraday communicated the following
piece of admirable advice; full of practical wisdom; the result of
a rich experience of life; in a letter to his friend Professor
Tyndall:… 〃Let me; as an old man; who ought by this time to have
profited by experience; say that when I was younger I found I
often misrepresented the intentions of people; and that they did
not mean what at the time I supposed they meant; and further;
that; as a general rule; it was better to be a little dull of
apprehension where phrases seemed to imply pique; and quick in
perception when; on the contrary; they seemed to imply kindly
feeling。 The real truth never fails ultimately to appear; and
opposing parties; if wrong; are sooner convinced when replied to
forbearingly; than when overwhelmed。 All I mean to say is; that
it is better to be blind to the results of partisanship; and quick
to see goodwill。 One has more happiness in one's self in
endeavouring to follow the things that make for peace。 You can
hardly imagine how often I have been heated in private when
opposed; as I have thought unjustly and superciliously; and yet I
have striven; and succeeded; I hope; in keeping down replies of
the like kind。 And I know I have never lost by it。〃 (11)
While the painter Barry was at Rome; he involved himself; as was
his wont; in furious quarrels with the artists and dilettanti;
about picture…painting and picture…dealing; upon which his friend
and countryman; Edmund Burkealways the generous friend of
struggling meritwrote to him kindly and sensibly: 〃Believe me;
dear Barry; that the arms with which the ill…dispositions of the
world are to be combated; and the qualities by which it is to be
reconciled to us; and we reconciled to it; are moderation;
gentleness; a little indulgence to others; and a great deal of
distrust of ourselves; which are not qualities of a mean spirit;
as some may possibly think them; but virtues of a great and noble
kind; and such as dignify our nature as much as they contribute to
our repose and fortune; for nothing can be so unworthy of a well…
composed soul as to pass away life in bickerings and litigations
in snarling and scuffling with every one about us。 We must be at
peace with our species; if not for their sakes; at least very much
for our own。〃 (12)
No one knew the value of self…control better than the poet Burns;
and no one could teach it more eloquently to others; but when it
came to practice; Burns was as weak as the weakest。 He could not
deny himself the pleasure of uttering a harsh and clever sarcasm
at another's expense。 One of his biographers observes of him;
that it was no extravagant arithmetic to say that for every ten
jokes he made himself a hundred enemies。 But this was not all。
Poor Burns exercised no control over his appetites; but freely
gave them rein:
〃Thus thoughtless follies laid him low
And stained his name。〃
Nor had he the self…denial to resist giving publicity to
compositions originally intended for the delight of the tap…room;
but which continue secretly to sow pollution broadcast in the
minds of youth。 Indeed; notwithstanding the many exquisite poems
of this writer; it is not saying too much to aver that his immoral
writings have done far more harm than his purer writings have done
good; and that it would be better that all his writings should be
destroyed and forgotten provided his indecent songs could be
destroyed with them。
The remark applies alike to Beranger; who has been styled 〃The
Burns of France。〃 Beranger was of the same bright incisive
genius; he had the same love of pleasure; the same love of
popularity; and while he flattered French vanity to the top of its
bent; he also painted the vices most loved by his countrymen with
the pen of a master。 Beranger's songs and Thiers' History
probably did more than anything else to reestablish the Napoleonic
dynasty in France。 But that was a small evil compared with the
moral mischief which many of Beranger's songs are calculated to
produce; for; circulating freely as they do in French households;
they exhibit pictures of nastiness and vice; which are enough to
pollute and destroy a nation。
One of Burns's finest poems; written; in his twenty…eighth year;
is entitled 'A Bard's Epitaph。' It is a description; by
anticipation; of his own life。 Wordsworth has said of it: 〃Here
is a sincere and solemn avowal; a public declaration from his own
will; a confession at once devout; poetical and human; a history
in the shape of a prophecy。〃 It concludes with these lines:…
〃Reader; attendwhether thy soul
Soars fancy's flights beyond the pole;
Or darkling grubs this earthly hole
In low pursuit;
Knowprudent; cautious self…control;
Is Wisdom's root。〃
One of the vices before which Burns felland it may be said to
be a master…vice; because it is productive of so many other vices
was drinking。 Not that he was a drunkard; but because he
yielded to the temptations of drink; with its degrading
associations; and thereby lowered and depraved his whole nature。
(13) But poor Burns did not stand alone; for; alas! of all vices;
the unrestrained appetite for drink was in his time; as it
continues to be now; the most prevalent; popular; degrading;
and destructive。
Were it possible to conceive the existence of a tyrant who should
compel his people to give up to him one…third or more of their
earnings; and require them at the same time to consume a commodity
that should brutalise and degrade them; destroy the peace and
comfort of their families; and sow in themselves the seeds of
disease and premature deathwhat indignation meetings; what
monster processions there would be! 'What eloquent speeches and
apostrophes to the spirit of liberty!what appeals against a
despotism so monstrous and so unnatural! And yet such a tyrant
really exists amongst usthe tyrant of unrestrained appetite;
whom no force of arms; or voices; or votes can resist; while men
are willing to be his slaves。
The power of this tyrant can only be overcome by moral meansby
self…discipline; self…respect; and self…control。 There is no
other way of withstanding the despotism of appetite in any of its
forms。 No reform of institutions; no extended power of voting; no
improved form of government; no amount of scholastic instruction;
can possibly elevate the character of a people who voluntarily
abandon themselves to sensual indulgence。 The pursuit of ignoble
pleasure is the degradation of true happiness; it saps the morals;
destroys the energies; and degrades the manliness and robustness
of individuals as of nations。
The courage of self…control exhibits itself in many ways; but in
none more clearly than in honest living。 Men without the virtue
of self…denial are not only subject to their own selfish desires;
but they are usually in bondage to others who are likeminded with
themselves。 What others do; they do。 They must live according to
the artificial standard of their class; spending like their
neighbours; regardless of the consequences; at the same time that
all are; perhaps; aspiring after a style of living higher than
their means。 Each carries the others along with him; and they
have not the moral courage to stop。 They cannot resist the
temptation of living high; though it may be at the expense of
others; and they gradually become reckless of debt; until it
enthrals them。 In all this there is great moral cowardice;
pusillanimity; and want of manly independence of character。
A rightminded man will shrink from seeming to be what he is not;
or pretending to be richer than he really is; or assuming a style
of living that his circumstances will not justify。 He will have
the courage to live honestly within his own means; rather than
dishonestly upon the means of other people; for he who incurs
debts in striving to maintain a style of living beyond his income;
is in spirit as dishonest as the man who openly picks your pocket。
To many; this may seem an extreme view; but it will bear the
strictest test。 Living at the cost of others is not only
dishonesty; but it is untruthfulness in deed; as lying is in word。
The proverb of George Herbert; that 〃debtors are liars;〃 is
justified by experience。 Shaftesbury somewhere says that a
restlessness to have something which we have not; and to be
something which we are not; is the root of all immorality。 (14) No
reliance is to be placed on the sayinga very dangerous oneof
Mirabeau; that 〃LA PETITE MORALE ETAIT L'ENNEMIE DE LA GRANDE。〃
On the contrary; strict adherence to even the smallest details of
morality is the foundation of all manly and noble character。
The honourable man is frugal of his means; and pays his way
honestly。